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  • Remembering Rabbi W. Gunther Plaut (z”l)

    Posted ‍‍כ שבט ה תשעב - February 13, 2012 By in Rabbi's Thoughts With | Comments Off

    On any given Shabbat morning, anywhere from a dozen to three dozen members of this community (and some interested non-members) gather for Torah study. Most do it “religiously”, building it into their weekend schedules as a not-to-be-missed part of their week and/or their experience of Shabbat.

    I have led Torah study in our congregation for the past twenty-two years. Over the course of that time I have cycled through the Torah at least four times, either portion-by-portion or verse-by-verse. One might think that I’d get tired of doing so. The truth is, I have always looked forward to Torah Study with our “regulars”, some of whom are seasonal attendees, some of whom have departed for Torah Study experiences elsewhere and some who have simply departed this life (and who may yet be studying Torah…who knows?!)

    One constant through the decades has been the Torah commentary we have used: The Torah: A Modern Commentary whose General Editor and Chief  Author was Rabbi W. Gunther Plaut (z”l) This marvelous compendium of erudite scholarship, critical essays, and helpful footnotes served a great need for a modern, liberal Torah commentary when it was first published around 1980. It sources draw from a variety of academic disciplines: biblical criticism, archeology, psychology, anthropology, physical sciences, etc. A revised edition, published within the past few years, has allowed this marvelous guide to Torah to remain vital and informative.

    Rabbi Plaut died on February 8 at the age of ninety-nine. In his memory, and in deep appreciation for his intellect and energy that led to the creation of The Torah: A Modern Commentary, I want to share the following insights into his life written by Rabbi David Ellenson, President of the Hebrew Union College-Jewish Institute of Religion:

    “Rabbi Plaut was an unparalleled scholar, leader, and rabbi of our Reform Movement and our People.  HUC-JIR will be forever blessed that it had the zechut to bring him from Germany to our Cincinnati campus during the 1930s and save him from destruction during the Shoah.

    Born in Germany, he studied at the Universities of Heidelberg and Berlin, and received the LLB (1933) Doctor of Laws (1934) from the University of Berlin.  He fled from Hitler in 1935 for the United States, and found a safe haven at our Cincinnati campus, where he was ordained in 1939.  He served as a chaplain with the Infantry during World War II, was present at the capture of the first concentration camp in Germany, and was decorated with the Bronze Star.

    Rabbi Plaut served as a rabbi in Chicago, St. Paul, and, from 1961 on, at Holy Blossom Temple in Toronto. He retired from his post as Senior Rabbi of Holy Blossom Temple in 1978 and was appointed its Senior Scholar.

    He published over two dozen books on theology, philosophy, and history, as well as works of fiction.  His best known work is The Torah — A Modern Commentary, of which he was editor and chief author.

    Known as an uncompromising enemy of all manifestations of racism, he was the founder of Toronto’s Urban Alliance on Race Relations; a founding member of the North York (Toronto) Committee on Community, Race and Ethnic Relations, and he served as a one-person federal commission to redraft Canada’s refugee legislation (1984-85). From 1978 to 1985, he served as Vice-Chair of the Ontario Human Rights Commission, and upon leaving the Commission served for a number of years as a Board of Inquiry (Adjudicator).  All of his decisions have been published.

    A leader in the Jewish and larger community, he served as the President of the Canadian Jewish Congress, President of the Central Conference of American Rabbis, and Chairman of the Toronto Jewish Appeal.

    Rabbi Plaut served on the HUC-JIR Board of Governors and was honored by HUC-JIR with the Doctor of Divinity, honoris causa, in 1964, and the Doctor of Humane Letters, honoris causa, in 2003.  He also received honorary doctorates from the University of Toronto, York University, and McMaster University.  He was a Companion of the Order of Canada and received the Order of Canada Award, the highest award given by the Canadian government.

    In his scholarship, congregational calling, and his life, we will not see his like again.  Baruch dayan emet.”

    Tomorrow morning, as we begin our Shabbat encounter with Torah, we will pause to honor the life and the contributions of Rabbi W. Gunther Plaut.

    Reb Elias

  • February is Jewish Disability Awareness Month

    Posted ‍‍יד טבת ה תשעב - January 9, 2012 By in Rabbi's Thoughts With | Comments Off

    My father, Dr. Alfred Toby Lieberman (of blessed memory), was a physician. He was, to be precise, an “otorhinolaryngologist” (a word I learned to pronounce as a very young child)–an “ear, nose and throat” specialist. He graduated from the University of Cincinnati Medical School and went on to Johns Hopkins Hospital in Baltimore to pursue his residency training, the first Jew admitted to that program in Johns Hopkins’ history.

    During the Second World War my father served in the Army Air Corps and was stationed at Wright-Patterson Airfield in Dayton, OH. (Dayton was my father’s hometown and he would regale us with tales of his daily walk past Orville & Wilbur Wright’s bicycle shop when he was a boy.) He was involved in medical research examining the inner-ear problems encountered by pilots flying at high altitudes that sometimes led to loss of consciousness. His work contributed to successful solutions to this vexing problem.

    In his private practice my father saw a variety of patients. He was known, admired and loved for his gentle touch and demeanor as a physician. He was a surgeon who frequently performed delicate inner-ear surgery. One of my cherished memories is sitting alongside my father as he performed one such operation. I viewed his actions through an ancillary microscope viewing tube. I was quite in  awe of his skill at manipulating surgical instruments in the tiniest of spaces.

    One of the ironies of his life was that, as he aged, my father began to suffer a serious loss of hearing. This was, in part, caused by exposure to airplane engine noise during the war. My father used two hearing aids which were far less sensitive than those available today, but which did help him to function. Toward the end of his life, his hearing loss was so great that, to effectively hold a conversation with him, one would need to speak into a microphone that fed the audio signal directly to his hearing aids. I must say that my father dealt with his disability with patience and an admirable lack of self-pity.

    I think of my father often but always when I am in a situation where someone present has a hearing disability. I do my best to not only speak loudly and clearly for that person’s benefit but to encourage everyone else present to do so as well. Few of us, I think, can fully appreciate the sense of isolation and disconnection imposed by hearing loss.

    I share these memories ands insights because February is Jewish Disability Awareness Month. The mission of Jewish Disability Awareness Month is to unite Jewish communities and organizations for the purpose of raising awareness and supporting meaningful inclusion of people with disabilities and their families in every aspect of Jewish life.

    This can be a time when we deepen our understanding of what it means to live with a disability and how much still remains to be done–in our society, in our communities, in our synagogues–to help ensure that everyone feels maximally included and involved. For a variety of helpful resources, I suggest that you do an Internet search under “Jewish Disability Awareness Month”.

    My beloved father died in 1988. Among the many blessings bequeathed me by him is a sensitivity to the challenges of hearing loss and deafness. May each of us find inspiration to increase our ability and commitment to respond to those with disabilities and to advocate for a society that recognizes and meets the needs of all people.

    Reb Elias

  • FJC Explores “Sacred Aging” This January

    Posted ‍‍כז כסלו ה תשעב - December 23, 2011 By in Adult Learning, Lifelong Learning, Pam's Desk, Special Event With | Comments Off aging

    Do not cast me off in old age; when my strength fails, do not forsake me.”    –  Psalm 71:9

    Throughout the month of January 2012, the Falmouth Jewish Congregation will be exploring the theme of “sacred aging,” engaging in discussions about ways to age with dignity, knowledge, and the support of community. Why “sacred aging”? The demographics of Cape Cod, with its higher-than-usual population of the semi-retired and retired, certainly speaks to the importance of the topic of aging. So does the large number of caregivers amongst us – children caring for aging parents, as well as aging parents caring for children and grandchildren. Then there is the ever-present call to pay attention to the aging amongst us, both in our local communities and in society at large. Judaism has a lot to say about the topic, both in its ancient texts and in its modern multiplicity of voices. The Union for Reform Judaism has for several years now promoted a program of “sacred aging” to help congregations and Reform Jews educate themselves anew in Judaism’s call to healthy living and aging.

    In his essay “To Grow in Wisdom,” initially delivered at the 1961 White House Conference on Aging, Rabbi Abraham Joshua Heschel wrote:

    “What we owe the old is reverence, but all they ask for is consideration, attention, not to be discarded and forgotten. What they deserve is preference, yet we do not even grant them equality. One father finds it possible to sustain a dozen children, yet a dozen children find it impossible to sustain one father.”

    Perhaps this is the most distressing aspect of the situation. The care for the old is regarded as an act of charity rather than as a supreme privilege. In the never dying utterance of the Ten Commandments, the God of Israel did not proclaim: Honor Me, Revere Me. He proclaimed instead: Revere your father and your mother. There is no reverence for God without reverence for father and mother.

    In Jewish tradition the honor for father and mother is a commandment, the perfect fulfillment of which surpasses the power of man. There is no limit to what one ought to do in carrying out this privilege of devotion. God is invisible, but my mother is His presence…”

    Allow me to suggest that each of us consider this year’s January theme one of personal relevance. This is decidedly not a program exclusively for seniors! From our children and baby boomers to our early retirees in their active 70s, to our nonagenarians, we will explore together attitudes toward aging and maturing. We will learn, do, create, and discuss together, with both a seriousness of purpose and a healthy sense of humor. Make a point of participating in at least one activity this month. Offerings are wide-ranging and surely include something of interest to you, from yoga and cooking for one to a variety of films, knitting circles, care giver discussions, and more.

    If you are not a member of the FJC, please note that many of the program’s events are open to the public and free of charge, while others are offered exclusively to members. Please call the office if you have a question. Everyone is encouraged to RSVP to help us with planning (508-540-0602). For a full calendar of events, visit the website’s calendar.

    Events open to the public include the following:

    The program begins on Tuesday, January 3 at 10:00 A.M. with the presentation “Dispelling the Myths of Hospice,” by Melissa Roberts Weidman, Director of Communications and Community Outreach at Hospice & Palliative Care of Cape Cod. Ms. Weidman will address the connections between advance planning and healthy aging, dispelling the many myths about hospice (i.e. that hospice is only for cancer patients; that hospice is only called when there are days or hours left; that a patient needs to be bedridden) and making the case for knowing the facts and resources available so you can rest assured your wishes are understood and supported. Come to a lively, informative talk covering these and other aspects of hospice and palliative care, presented by Melissa Roberts Weidman, Director of Communications and Community Outreach.

    The following week, on Monday, January 9 at Noon, Nadine Krasnow will present a talk entitled  “The Next Step”: Options for Senior Care and Housing”. This talk begins with a brown bag lunch, with drinks and desserts provided. Ms. Krasnow, who served as an executive in the retirement care industry for eleven years, will present an overview of the various care options for seniors, including staying home and hiring help; staying home and going out to adult day care; moving in with adult children; or moving to a retirement community. She will provide a brief description of each option, the relative pros and cons, along with an overview of the issues involved and what questions to ask to ensure that the best possible decision will be made.

    Nadine Krasnow served as Executive Director, Corporate Director of Marketing and Sales, and as an independent consultant in the retirement care industry. As a service to support individuals and families and help them make informed decisions, she maintains a small, private practice on the Cape and in the Greater Boston-MetroWest area.

    On Thursday, January 12, the first of several free film screenings will take place. A Noon brown bag lunch will precede the screening of “Sunset Story,” a funny and intimate documentary drama that will make you think differently about growing old. It tells the story of Irja (81) and Lucille (95), two friends at a rest home for retired radicals. As they attend demonstrations, register their fellow residents to vote and debate everything under the sun, Irja and Lucille’s verve and humor delight us. “Sunset Story” doesn’t shy away from the sadness of old age; it reveals two elderly women’s lives in an unusually authentic and surprisingly moving way. We follow the two for a period of several months as, inseparable, they venture out for manicures, political protests and meals at their favorite deli.

    Meanwhile at Sunset Hall, they are among the few who speak up during political discussions and the only ones alert enough to care about the appalling menu offerings. In private, they air their frustrations about fellow residents and debate fitting observance of the upcoming Jewish holidays from disparate perspectives–as a Finnish Unitarian (Irja) and an assimilated Jew (Lucille). Then, when Lucille receives a terminal cancer diagnosis, Irja must confront the possibility of losing her lifeline. Lucille and Irja explode familiar stereotypes of doddering “old ladies.” Sharp-witted, up-to-date, and often provocative, the two are not afraid to weigh in with opinions on men, sex, gender roles, and social attitudes toward the elderly. In a society in which the elderly are isolated and discarded as “unpleasant” reminders of the aging process, Irja and Lucille surprise us with their vitality and their quest for meaning and connection.

    Additional upcoming free public events in January include “The Things My Mother Taught Me,” a talk and book signing by author Kate Whouley based on her most recent book, the memoir Remembering the Music, Forgetting the Words: Travels with Mom in the Land of Dementia (2011), on Sunday, January 22 at 2:00 P.M. In her talk, as in her book, Ms. Whouley will share with honesty and good humor the tough, tender and heart-wrenching experiences of an Alzheimer’s caregiver.

    The program continues with a presentation entitled “Listen to the Still and Quiet Voice Within,” by Dr. Paul Raia, who has been directing patient care and family support at the Alzheimer’s Association for the past 22 years and now serves as vice president of clinical programs at the MA/NH Chapter. Dr. Raia’s talk takes place on Tuesday, January 24, starting with a noontime brown bag lunch.

    Two additional film screenings come later in the month. Thursday, January 26 features the documentary film Over Ninety and Loving It, followed by a brown bag lunch and discussion. For this documentary featuring people in their 90s and 100s who are living extraordinary and passionate lives, filmmaker Susan Polis Schutz interviewed some of the most incredible people you can imagine – people who aren’t aware of chronological age at all but live as though the future and youth spring eternal.

    The final film screening is a Saturday afternoon double feature on January 28 at 3:00 P.M. First up is a 20-minute dramatic short film entitled Beautiful Hills of Brooklyn. This multiple award-winning short is a transcendent story of the human spirit, told through the ordinary, daily life of an elderly woman — strong, independent and unsentimental — the kind of life that goes on quietly among us, hidden from view, full of undiscovered riches. Filmed entirely on practical locations in, the film stars Broadway, film and television actress Joanna Merlin, who created the role of Jessie in the original stage production and also co-wrote and produced the film.

    The second film is Gen Silent, the critically-acclaimed documentary from filmmaker Stu Maddux that asks six LGBT seniors if they will hide their friends, their spouses- their entire lives in order to survive in the care system. Their surprising decisions are captured through intimate access to their day-to-day lives over the course of a year.  It puts a face on what experts in the film call an epidemic:  gay, lesbian, bisexual or transgender older people so afraid of discrimination by caregivers or bullying by other seniors that many simply go back into the closet. Unlike any film before, Gen Silent startlingly discovers how oppression in the years before Stonewall now affects older lesbian, gay, bisexual and transgender people with fear and isolation.

  • Legacy

    Posted ‍‍כ כסלו ה תשעב - December 16, 2011 By in Rabbi's Thoughts With | Comments Off

    As I anticipate our nation’s observance of the birthday of the Rev. Dr. Martin Luther King, Jr., the word “legacy” has been on my mind. One definition for that words supplies us with this: “anything handed down from the past, as from an ancestor or predecessor.” The English word “legacy” is derived from the late 14c., “a body of persons sent on a mission,” from Old French legacie “legate’s office,” from Medieval Latin legatia, from Latin legatus “ambassador, envoy”.

    Dr. King was, indeed, an envoy…an ambassador for righteousness bearing a message of truth that was often uncomfortably received. The legacy of Dr. King’s life and his passionate commitments are still being debated, some forty-three years after his assassination in April, 1968 in Memphis, Tennessee. Had he lived, what might Dr. King have done, what causes would he have embraced, what strategies would he have employed? Would Dr. King recognize in the Occupy Wall Street movement the legacy of his Poor People’s Campaign? Would he have agonized over U.S. involvement in Iraq and Afghanistan with the same fervor that he was bringing to his opposition to the Vietnam War when his life was snuffed out? We can only speculate.

    “On the last Saturday of his life, sitting in his study at Ebenezer, King fretted and contemplated a fast–a genuine sacrifice for a man who joked about how his collars were growing tighter. He mused about getting out of the full-time movement, maybe becoming president of Morehouse College. Then his spirits started to rise. “He preached himself out of the gloom,” says Jackson. “We must turn a minus into a plus,” King said, “a stumbling block into a stepping-stone–we must go on anyhow.”

    [From an article by Vern E. Smith and Jon Meacham, published in Newsweek in 1998,  found here.]

    Anyone who has studied Dr. King’s life, replete with the challenges and contradictions to which every human being is prey, cannot but conclude that Dr. King–had he lived–would have found a way to “go on anyhow”.

    Looking at our fractious society with its ever-expanding wealth disparity, at our environmentally-challenged planet, at the seemingly intractable conflicts that erupt in violence and bloodshed, we are ever mindful of the need for the precious legacy that Dr. King bequeathed us….the sacred obligation to “preach [ourselves] out of the gloom” and “turn a minus into a plus”.

    I hope that you will avail ourselves of these opportunities to celebrate Dr. King’s birthday and to tap in, once again, to his inspiring legacy.

    Reb Elias

  • Winter Warmth Coat and Accessories Collection for the Falmouth Service Center

    Posted ‍‍ג כסלו ה תשעב - November 29, 2011 By in Social Action, Uncategorized With | Comments Off winter coat

    “Praised are you, Adonai, who clothes the naked.”

    Baruch Atah, Adonai, Eloheinu melech ha-olam, malbish arumim.

    [from Nisim b’chol yom / Birchot ha Shachar (Morning Blessings)]

    From now through January, 2012  the FJC will be collecting donations of clean, gently-used or new coats, hats, scarves, gloves, mittens, etc. for our neighbors in need of winter warmth. Please bring items to the designated boxes in the coatroom. All sizes are accepted. This is both an easy and important mitzvah – cleaning and clearing your closest of unused warm clothing while providing warm clothing for those who lack them. Please check pockets and wash items at home or send to the dry cleaner before bringing them to the FJC.

    Let us know if you would like to volunteer to deliver items to the Falmouth Service Center. They will accept one batch after Thanksgiving and another after Christmas, since they are especially busy at those times.

     

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